I hate that I’m white

Teachers are often White women whose own educational and life experiences are considerably different from the students in urban schools, and teacher education may not include developing skills that prepare them for racial and cultural diversity (Wiggins, Follo, & Eberly, 2007).

Cited from Yull, Blitz, Thompson & Murray, 2014, pg. 13

I read this particular quote, as I have read many others of a similar nature, and I just feel so crushed. I am a White woman whose personal and educational background, in many ways, should “disqualify” me from being able to educate brown children. I didn’t grow up in an urban community and my parents admittedly sheltered me from any diversity they could. “On paper”, so to speak, I have no reason to possess any skills that empower me to teach children from racially and culturally diverse backgrounds. However, somewhere along the way, Continue reading I hate that I’m white

Please care for us today

“Our students’ behavior will begin to reflect these positive assumptions. What shifts is the how-the manner in which we communicate”.

We recite little empty sentences to ourselves and repeat them to our kids everyday: “you can do anything you want to do”, “you can be who you want to be”, “search your goal and seize it”, “you can change the world”, “all it takes is perseverance (grit)”. These are like the no-words: important, difficult, thing, some, …. little fillers we like to fabricate to stop voids from expanding and lies to unfold. The movement from the ethereal of these words and expressions toward the hands on dough mixing deal, now that’s tough. The strategies in this reading do exactly that. They fill the void with yummy Nutella, meaning actual meaning, actual doing, actual actions. These practical guidelines as well as the focal learner project, are exactly what teachers need to see and live in their process of learning and becoming school community builders. This is me looking at their humanity and therefore mine in the face, accepting that we have a purpose that shares the same space and we should therefore care for each other every second until dismissal and beyond. That’s the life skill that should be modeled, concluded and practiced daily.

MVP#13 Put more efforts on our students, understand them personally!

Students’ self-esteem and resilience increase when they feel at home in a safe space with close, caring, and supportive relationship with fellow students and with teachers who have “got their back” (Goodman, 2018, pg. 132).

            Throughout the entire course of understanding and learning about the adolescents, teachers have to consider many different aspects about students to engage their learning in this inclusive classroom. We don’t exactly know what is(are) the thing(s) happen to our students when they enter the classroom with various emotional expressions, or attitudes. Sometimes, we also might neglect them how they feeling about the day since we are so busy to focus on planning curriculum and instruction. In other words, we are not building a constant relationship with our students, just because our job is to teach them academically; such as an excuse. In order to make students engage in our classroom, I believe we need to touch with them initiative. Consider about different characteristics of our students, student won’t speak to us if they are introverted, conservative, or inactive. Hence, for those type of students, we probably want to try different strategies which make them open their hearts willing to share their concerns with us. For instance, as Martens mentioned, students might feel engaged and supportive when we add something that relevant to students such as, hobby, favorite food, anything upon students’ interests. Making the connection with my teaching area, I would like to create math problems with the interests of my specific students who need more cares and attention. Personally, the big advantage of this lesson plan strategy is to build positive interdependence with the whole class, including ourselves. This way students feel everyone in this room willing to understand his/her personality, which comfortable to speak out loud either to his/her classmates or to us. Therefore, such an opportunity will increase the conversations with our students into more personally regard to their lives from outside of school. In addition, we probably want to visit our students’ community (even resident place) to recognize how well they living. Is the community that our students living to foster their learning? Is that safe? Any issues that influence how students perform in our classroom? I believe these questions might be answered when we push ourselves to get closer and understand our student individually. So as an educator, I agree this is another expectation for us to understand our students comprehensively. Or just even give them a warm simile when they come into our class!

MVP #13 Teacher’s role should be clarfied and the awareness of Mental Health Knowledge on teachers and students

“one of the factors we had to overcome when working with the educators on the website was their initial feelings of inadequacy about dealing with student mental health. We heard statements such as ‘mission impossible,’ ‘I am struggling too,’ and ‘I will have to ask my school board mental health lead if I can participate.” (Yet One More Expectation for Teachers, P119). “Mental health professionals must remember that building teacher capacity in MHL feels overwhelming to teachers as learners: they are not experts, they know it, and the problems are severe” (Yet One More Expectation for Teachers, P119).
The mental health knowledge and issues are not only happening on students but also happens to teachers. Since teachers are not supermen and superwomen, they cannot know every single knowledge. Teachers also would have felt overwhelming in their work. However, in fact, it is less to think about teachers’ wellness and their mental health cares. I personally think the mental and wellness health problems that teachers have are coming from the students because the teachers struggle with students every day in every single detailed matter. However, teacher, as the teaching role, instead of mental health treatment role, they are actually working on many types of roles. Teachers take care of students’ academic works and daily life, even students’ physical health. While teachers are doing all these works, they have to take care about the students are on the pace of academic learning, which is very hard for the teacher to balance so many different matters into a good direction. So I think the role clarify is really needed. School should provide more supports for students’ mental health knowledge and other fields so that teachers could easily pay attention to academic teaching.

MVP: Failure of the Foster Care System

“Between the ages of 9 and 11, Makeba was placed in seven different foster homes, and five schools. As she put it, ‘When we go to a new house, foster care kids don’t unpack our bags. ‘Cause we are so used to moving all the time’” (personal communication, September 27, 2017) (Goodman, 112)

This quote in particular stood out to me because it shows how children at that young age are already so traumatized and affected by their circumstances that they already have figured out little ways of coping. When we go through trauma, our brains can shut down or repress memories in order to protect us, and in this case, the foster children had their usual routine which was meant for them to protect themselves, whether they realized it or not. They don’t even want to feel “at home” with any of these foster families because they already realize how temporary it is. To go through seven different homes of unfamiliar families and five schools in a two year period, during critical years of development, is something I could not imagine or ever understand experiencing. I agree that the system has and continues to fail our children by giving them more trauma and less stability than they had to begin with.