Category Archives: Reaching Adolescents and How to Respond

MVP#12 One more expectation to us

…And the system must be ready to invite teachers into the leadership for systemic change, to empower them to chart the course for adopting MHL practices, and, most importantly, to make teacher well-being a priority in the process. Initially, however, teachers need to see themselves as having a critical role in mental health efforts (Weston and Ott, 2018, pg.114).

             As reading this article, I strongly agree that practicing the Mental Health Literacy in the school setting is significant to serve our students’ individual needs. Depending on the characteristics of a student, students willing to share his/her circumstance to their teachers if they are outgoing and open mind. Definitely, it does matter that have a good relationship with their teachers in order to bring out their internal issues. However, if teachers don’t have a trust relationship with their students, especially students who are conservative or does not willing to share their problems outside of school, teachers never understand why his/her student perform poorly in their classes. Goodman (2018) listed the possible traumas of students might suffer from the relationships with their siblings, extended family members, broke family bond, loss of family members, and drug addiction of parents (pg. 109). In order to access personal issues of the student, how would teachers to support or what strategies that teachers should approach? According to my personal perspectives, first of all, if I were the teacher of these students, I would change classroom atmosphere allows students to use the languages that they prefer. In other words, I expecting students treat me as their best buddy, not like a formal type of teacher (I mean the ideology of students always treat teachers in respect manner). I think this is a big step to walk closer to students because they would feel comfortable to communicate with teachers, as well as to share the common themes that students and teachers both had such as video games, sports, social networking platforms, foods, fashions, anything related to non-academic contents. If we, as educators could able to do that, I believe most students would share their daily lives with us because we are the buddies of them. Since we choose to treat our students as their best friend, we would eager and care about each student’s life outside of school voluntary if they do have certain problems. We would go visit student’s community that they spent the most of the time, even visit his/her house if there’s something wrong with the living condition, parental relationship, or anything that Goodman (2018) mentioned. Additionally, except caring students’ academic progress on the contents that we teach, I also believe we should have a free-period that spent times together with our students to make our relationship to be closest and tightest, as their siblings. Therefore, we would be more aware and serious about the traumas that students who experienced. Once they grow up as a young adult, they would able to understand the positive of the beauty of human nature, as well as to understand how to care the other.

Reference:

Goodman (2018). It’s Not About Grit—Trauma, Inequality, and the Power of Transformative Teaching, (pg.108-128)

We Need A New Ship, We Need a New System

“And in the face of demands for perpetual growth in achievement indidcators, addressing the connection of learning to well-being can seem like ‘one more thing’ added to an already overflowing plate” (Weston, K. et al, 2018, pg. 106).

Sometimes it feels as though teachers are the fingers plugging all the holes in the ship before the water takes it down. The problem being we only have so many fingers, and maybe we just need a better ship? As an educator I want to be everything to my students. I understand that our job will sometimes entail being a sensitive listener, a community activist, a safe space, a punching bag, an ally or a resource for social services, justice and more. As a person who believes in young people, I do not have a problem making myself available, learning what I need to learn and doing what I need to do. Yet… I am angry about it, I am frustrated about it, I am resentful. Why must educators be the gatekeepers to all adolescent well-being? Why are we sometimes the last hope for young people? Why if we hold so much value in shaping a young person’s life are we still so undervalued, and underpaid? Why aren’t there more social workers or counselors in school? Why aren’t these professionals available to they entirety of our communities including parents and teachers? Why doesn’t the school day allow for more space to be, to sit with an idea, to sit with each other?

Time and time again we ask the people to do more, the people who are already doing the most, when we should be asking the system to do more, to be better to be there for us. Educators should absolutely commit to growth just as we expect our students too, but we are human, we are one part of the whole that touch a young person’s life. The world expects teachers to be everything, and in return I ask the world to provide us with everything. We need a new ship, we need a new system.

When are they going to believe us?

Some kids are so dysfunctional…it takes all of our efforts and I don’t see it getting any better. That’s why people don’t go into teaching. They are not paid well, they’re not appreciated, and it’s stressful.
(Weston, Ott & Rodger, 2018, pg. 108)

When it comes to the profession of teaching, people have many opinions about our jobs. It’s known that we aren’t paid well, but people tend to obsess over our schedules, specifically our summer breaks. If you’re focusing on just one component of the teaching profession as an isolated entity, you’ll miss the point completely. I think this quote sums it up perfectly. Sure, we aren’t paid well, but we also aren’t appreciated. That’s obvious in how people simply discredit our complaints about our deficient wages with the argument that we have multiple days off. They are unable to factor in what our day even consists of, nor what our free time requires of us in order to get everything done to continue providing learning opportunities for all students. Continue reading When are they going to believe us?

You Can’t Pour from an Empty Cup

“Another teacher was forced to leave the profession for a while, due to her own mental health issues, but felt she had to hide the true cause of her need to step away.”
Weston et al. (2018)

What struck me about this article was the brief mention of mental health struggles that many teachers come to face and how this relates to student mental health issues. It was a reminder that mental health is not just a concern for students, but for teachers as well, which is in turn a reminder that students and teachers are both human beings with very real mental health and self-care needs that must be met before success can be achieved in school. Continue reading You Can’t Pour from an Empty Cup

Let’s understand to understand

“By doing so, we en- hance an understanding of adolescence, the life course more generally, and the developmental pro- cesses that connect the two. We shouldn’t isolate all of these ages as complete separate chapters of life”. (Johnson, Crosnoe & Elder, 2011, p.274)

As read in the article, it is basic psychology, or at least general knowledge, that all of our experiences can shape much of who we become and what we do in life. Every single person is a product of past encounters along with new ones that allow for personal growth to alter and shift concurrently with time. These shifts are also based on various external influences as well as one’s intrapersonal relationship- which diverges throughout the span of life. Continue reading Let’s understand to understand