“In particular, he researched a strategy called “Two-by-Ten.” Here, teachers focus on their most difficult student. For two minutes each day, 10 days in a row, teachers have a personal conversation with the student about anything the student is interested in, as long as the conversation is G-rated. Wlodkowski found an 85-percent improvement in that one student’s behavior.”
I was really interested in this strategy of behavior management because it would have never occurred to me. Not only would it have never occurred to me, I think I would actively try to avoid it. At this stage in my teaching career, when I’m still a little unsure of myself, I try to avoid my most difficult students, even in class. Now that I read about this strategy, it occurs to me that avoiding them might even make things worse, because it gives the bad students the impression that you don’t like them and/or don’t notice them, so they can continue to act up without any consequences. The two by ten strategy does the opposite – shows them that, even if you may not like them, you’re at least trying to like them, you’re believing there could be something about them to like, and you’re also showing them that you notice them, and everyone wants to be noticed. In a weird way you’re also admonishing them, letting them know, if they pick up on it, that you’re choosing to talk to them because there’s a problem, and you’re doing something about it, but they’re not totally sure what. It might keep them on their toes a little. I was astonished by the success rate of this method – 85%! The text also mentioned how it improved the whole dynamic of the class, because it enlisted the most difficult kids as allies – keep your friends close but your enemies closer, as the saying goes. This has to be approached in the right way – some kids might feel creeped out or patronized if this isn’t done correctly. They might be suspicious, and ask why you want to talk to them. You should have a good answer prepared, one that will brush that away and make them want to keep talking.