“But equally important may be the role of a female friend, a potential, if not actual “girlfriend”. Five of the high school shooters had what they felt was serious girl trouble, especially with rejection. It may be that they boys who are best able to resist the torments of incessant bullying, gay-baiting, and marginalization are those who have some girls among their friends, and perhaps even a girlfriend – that is, girls who can also validate their sense of masculinity (which other boys can do as well) as well as their heterosexuality (which boys alone cannot do)” (Kimmel 108)
I chose this excerpt from Michael Kimmel’s piece I am not insane: I am angry, because I could not find myself advocating for what he proposed. Why does the burden of validating a potential school shooter’s sexuality and masculinity fall on females? Continue reading Take One For The Team: Date Your Local School Shooter?