“Parents have the primary responsibility for engaging young adults in conversations about what they see and hear.”(P-47) Who Am I? The Social,Emotional,and Identity Trails of Young Adolescence.

As a parent of adolescent, I realized that the role of parents should change from more authoritative to more collaborative approach. I still remember from our reading of my other subject written kalyanpur and Harry, We have Asian people do not encourage their kids to talk, so the receptive learning is good but that doesn’t support their expressive learning. I think we should allow them to see their own dreams, allow them to develop the habit of greater self responsibility and confident and be independent in decision making.

Because of media, technology and their circles, they get exposure to the world both in positive and negative ways. It is important as a guardians (Teacher and parent) need to create friendly, healthy and respectful environment. So they could share their feelings, emotions and even their confidential incidents without any hesitation. In my culture there is one saying,” When either son and father or daughter and mom starts sharing their clothes and shoes then treat them as a friend.”