David Krebs
The Human Rights Advocacy Centre
Accra, Ghana
Aside from my work with the Human Rights Advocacy Centre, my goal for the summer was to build a social network comprised of men who have sex with men (MSM), sexual minorities, as well as leaders and experts in the field of sexual minority rights.
The challenge was determining how to build a network of MSM in a country where gay men and sexual minorities are highly stigmatized and one’s status as “gay” can make one the object of extortion, blackmail, and violence.
One method for meeting individuals was using social networks. I have several friends in Uganda who, in light of the defunct (currently) anti-homosexuality bill, saw an upsurge in usage of gay dating sites, mainly Grindr, Manjam, Gaydar, and Gay Romeo. The problem with using such apps or websites as a networking tool is that men who are active on these sites are looking for hookups and occasionally transactional sex.
A second problem with using gay dating sites is the presence of “fake-gays.” These profiles are set up with the intent of meeting MSMs to extort them for money or inflict violence, knowing that the victims, with their status as sexual minorities, are unlikely to report abuse to the police, who pose a separate threat altogether.
Facebook proved to be a safer option, since individuals could create digital safe spaces to host discussions, post photos, and flirt. Several individuals I met discussed having an “alter-ego” profile. While a primary profile maintains appearances for family, coworkers, and straight friends, this secondary subversive profile often has anonymous profile photos and gives one the freedom to openly discuss sexual desires and intimacies. I found this to be an apt analogy to the term coined by Du Bois–“double consciousness”–referencing the multifaceted conception of self. MSM in Ghana are constantly trying to reconcile the multiple cultures that comprise their identity.
Though using Facebook to meet and contact MSM proved to be a useful tool, it did not efface concerns about why I, a white outsider, would want to meet up with other MSM. This led to a fundamental problem when it came to discussing sexual taboos, as acknowledged by Richard Parker:
“There is perhaps no area of social research that poses greater challenges than the study of intimacy and intimate experiences…[T]opics such as gender identity, sexual desire and practices, emotions and affaires of the heart…[have been some of] the least developed areas of investigation in nearly all the social sciences over the course of the twentieth and early twenty-first century.”